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shaadi se pahale jarur puche ye 10 sawal

priye dosto agar aapki shaadi hone waali hai aur aap confuge ho rahe hai ki aap ko na jaane kaisi life partner milegi. sawal bada hi sensetive bhi aur bahut important bhi hai.to dosto mai aapko batana chahata hu ki agar aap shadi kar rahe hai aur lagmi hai ki aapka hone wala partner aapke pasand ke hisaab ka ho to follow kijiye mere in 10 tips ko jo aapko aapna life partner chunne me madad karega.
taki shaadi karke aapko koi pachtawa na ho.

1.shaadi se pahale apne hone waale partner se sawal

humare sociaty me shadi ka bishesh sthan hai aur is ek alag mahatwa diya gaya hai jaisa ki aap aur hum bhalibhati jante hai shadi ek aisa rishte hai jis se uthane waale tarange humari jindagi me khushiya bhar deti hai aur iska taal mel ulta ho jaye to humari jindagi ko ek dard aur pareshani ke khai me bhi dhakel deti hai isi liye mai aap logo ko yah bataane ki koshis kar raha hu ki aapka hone wala partner aapko samajne wala to hona hi chahiye iske alawa aisi bahut saari baate hai jo shadi se pahale aapko aapko jannana ati aawoshyek hai.aap jisse shadi karne jaa rahe hai kya woh shadi ke liye tayar hai aur yedi shadi ke liye tayaar hai to ye jarur dekhe ki uska swobhao kaisa hai kya aapko uske swobhao ke parti koi aapatti hai ya aapko uska swobhaw pasand nahi hai aapko aise bahut si baato ka dhyan rakhna behad jaruri hai kyo ki aap apni aane waali puri jindagi kisi anjaan person se rista jodne  ja rahe hai.

2.shaadi ke importance ko samjhe

badalte duniya ke saath saath aaj kal logo ka najariya bhi badal raha hai.jaisa ki aap jaante hai aaj kal shadi se pahale ladko aur ladkiyo ko ek dusre ko jaanane ka achha mauka bhi mil jaata hai isi liye aapko pahale se hi in saare sawalo ka jawaab jaan lena ati aawoshyek hai kyoki aap ek dusro ko jab achhi tarah se jante hai to aap dono ko koi jhijhak nahi honi chahiye aur ek dusro ko ye jarur puchhe ki aap shadi kyo karna chahate hai aur aapki nazar me aap dono ke liye shadi ka kya importance hai.aap dono ke liye iska chunav karna koi aapatti bhi nahi hogi aur ek dusre ke man ki baat jo shadi ke liye jaruri hai achhi tarah se kar payenge.

3.shadi ke liye kisi tarah ka preasure to nahi

shaadi se pahale aapko yah janana bahut jaruri hai ki aap jis se shaadi jaise pavitra bandhan me bandhne ja rahe hai kya uske upar shadi karne ka koi presure hai kahi aisa to nahi ki uske ghar waale uski shaadi jabarjasti karwa rahe hai aur yeh bhi jarur janane ki koshish kare ki woh is shadi se khus hai ya nahi aur shadi ke baad aane uske upar aane waali jimmedariyo ko mansik aur saririk rup se sambhalne ke liye woh tayaar hai bhi ya fir nahi.aise sawalo ka jawaab aapko jarur pata hona chahiye.

4.past se jude sawal 

aap sabhi jaante hai ki shadi ki jimmedariyo ko nibhane ke liye jaruri hota hai aapki aapasi sambandh kis prakar ka hai isme ek dusre ke bich achha understanding ka hona bahut jaruri hai aise me aapke man me uth rahe sawalo ko apne hone wale partner pucna behad jaruri hai dosto.agar aapke man me bhi kuch isi tarah ke sawaal uth rahe hai to bina jhijhak usse puch sakte hai aam taur par jyada tar log ek dusre ke atit ke baare me janana chahate hai aur yah jaruri bhi hai ki kya woh kisi se pyar karti thi ya fir is samay kisi ke pyar me pahale se hi engage hai.

5.financial responsibility ke baare me

hum aap sabhi is baat ko achhi tarike se jante hai ki behatar life style jine ke liye humare pass paryapt paiso ka hona bahut jaruri hai.ho sakta hai aapka hone wala life partner is baat se bekhabar ho ki aapka financial condition kaisa hai isi liye usse yah jarur clear kare ki aapki arthik sthiti kaisi hai aur aapki arthik sthiti ke hisaab se aapka hone wala life partner aapke saath khush rah payegi ki nahi yah shadi se pahale ki jaane waali sabse important sawalo me se ek hai is sawal ko apne hone wale saathi se jarur kahe.

6.family se jude sawaal

apne partner ko yah sawaal jarur puchhe ki woh kis tarah se ghar pariwar ko sambhal sakti hai aur unke dekhbhal kis tarike se kar sakti hai kyo ki shaadi ke baad aap befikr ho jate hai ki aapki wife aapki pariwaar ko sambhal rahi hai edi aise me aapko apne life partner ke upar koi sawaal uthata hai to aap ko dukh hoga aur aapko apne saathi ke parti pyar aur biswash kam ho sakta hai iske alawa bahut saari pareshaniyo ka bhi samana karna pad sakta hai.

7.shaadi aur romance se jude kuch sawal

jab aap ek dusre ko pasand kar lete hai aur aapki sagai ki date fix hone se pahale aapko ek dusre se kuch romance ke baare me charcha kar sakte hai jaise ki aapke partner kitna romantic hai aur uska romance ke parti kitna interest hai aur woh romance aur sex baare me kis tarah se sochti hai.iske baad yah bhi janne ki koshish kare ki uska apne dosto ke parti kaisa sambandh hai aur shadi ke baad aisa koi sambandh ke baare me pata na chale jiske kaaran aapki shaadisuda jindagi ko asar pahuchaye.

8.partner ke interest ke baare me jaane

shaadi se pahale apne hone waale saathi ke ruchiyo ko bhi janana utna hi jaruri hai aur apni ruchiyo ke baare me bhi usko bataye jaise usko kis tarah ki baate achhi lagti hai,usko ghumna firna ya long distance me apne partner ke saath time spent  karna achha lagta hai ya nahi.usko kis tarah ki topics par baat karna achha lagta hai aur kis tarah ka khana pasand hai wo veg hai ya nonveg yah sab baate pahale se jaan lenge to aapke liye achha hi hoga.

9.uska ambitions kya hai

ek bahut jaruri aur important question sabhi ko shaadi se pahale janana jaruri hai ki aapke saathi ka jivan ka lakshya kya hai uske jivan ka koi aisa lakshya jise woh pana chahati hai uske baare me charcha bhi kare saath hi uske lakshya ke baare me jaan kar uska samman aur hausala bhi badhaye.apne saathi ka lakshya jaan kar aap ek dusre ko ko aur adhik achhi tarah se jaan sakenge.

10.gharelu bhumikao ur future ke planning

jab aap baat kare to is baat par charcha jarur kare ki aap uski garelu bhumikao aur future planning ke bare me kis tarike se sochti hai.agar aap dono hi koi job karte hai aur apne job ke saath saath apne family planninig ko kis tarah dekhte hai is baat ko janana bhi bahut jaruri hai.jahir hai jab shaadi hogi to bachhe bhi honge to aise me apne bachho ko lekar kis taraha ka palanning aap karne waale hai aur uske liye aapka saathi tayaar hai ya nahi iski pushti pahale hi kar lijiye taki baad me in chijo ko lekar aap dono ke bich koi mat bhed na ho aaur aapki grihasthi bhari jindagi khushhali se chalta rahe.